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“Learning and living the Five Elements opens your eyes to new ways to seeing things.. ” — From The Energy of Love  YogaAD3YogaAD3Cherry blossom love

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“[It’s] all about connections…making connections within yourself and with others. As we make connections we are mostly unconscious about the effect our energy has on others. But we can become self-aware and utilize our energy to everyone’s benefit. All your relationships will take on new meanings once you learn how Elemental Energies interact with each other.”
– from The Energy of Love by Leta Herman and Jaye McElroy



Previously in Part 1:

…Energy rules the planet, and the energy of sexual attraction is not an exception to that rule. Every person has a specific energy make-up or temperament that you may find very attractive or dislike. Wouldn’t it be nice to understand which energy you’re often attracted to and how you can find your perfect mate? Well, we are here to help you do just that!

 

The ancient Chinese philosophers understood the difference between different types of energies and believed that depending on your energy type, it’s not so much a person’s actual “looks” that you fall in love with … it’s how they move, talk, and even the way they look at you that matters, especially in the bedroom!

Part 2:

Today’s world is moving at a face pace.  With movies, TV, and social media outlets that burst bits of information at us 24 hours a day, hot celebrities are seemingly everywhere.  Here is our Elemental take on some of the sexiest celebs that you may be thinking about when your mind wanders. We also will help you apply the Five Elements in your day-to-day relationships (minus the hot celebs, sorry)!

Wood – Weak in the knees for the strong and witty types? Do Ryan Gosling, Tom Cruise, or Robert Downey Jr. do it for you romantically? How about Madonna, supermodel Gisele, or Tina Fey?  What makes these celebs hot is not just their good looks, but also their decisive leadership capabilities. Many people are attracted to Woods because they are always leading the pack. They may be good-looking, but do you want to be with someone who is loud, cocky, and almost always right … all the time? To live with such Wood men and women, you need to be willing to give over the reins in your relationship and let them run the show most of the time. If not, you might be in a constant tug-of-war power struggle or seemingly endless road bumps in the relationship. The most important thing to remember if you’re interested in Wood … Woods can be easily bored in a relationship. You need to keep it fresh, new, challenging, and stimulating when you’re with a dynamic Wood person. Wood also likes being and having the best, so if you want to be on the A-team and are up for the challenge, this could be your game, set, and match.

Fire – Do you swoon over the smiling, lovable men? Do Twilight’s Robert Pattinson, Leonardo DiCaprio, or funny man Jimmy Fallon send you into a daydreamy state? What makes these men hot is their passion and enthusiasm. How about Cate Blanchett, Amy Adams, or Drew Barrymore. Their love of life is infectious and bubbling over wherever they may be. When a Fire puts the laser-tag playful focus on you, it’s irresistible and hard to deny.  In a long-term relationship with a Fire person, however, you may find it difficult to accomplish the more day-to-day reality “stuff” successfully. They’re easily distractible by the next shiny thing or toy, or in some cases, the next beautiful romantic interest. You will need to find a way to their beautiful hearts and keep making that connection—all the time.  It’s all about connecting with your eyes and your heart with these Fire-y divas, but well worth the efforts.

Earth – Are you smoldering over the down-to-earth steady men, like U2’s lead singer Bono, Star Trek’s Zachary Quinto, or Eat, Pray, Love’s sultry leading man Javier Bardem? These Earths are so much more than their hunky bodies and beautiful faces—they’ll actually listen to you, and really appreciate deep conversations about your relationships. Isn’t that every woman’s dream? Earth women like Beyoncé and Christina Aguilera are rocking their worlds wherever they go. If you’re into these Earth Element types, it’s easy to have a long-term and very comfy relationship with them, but be careful if they’re doing more work than they should. They can get bossy and annoyed, even very demanding at times with their close family members. They love food and family, and you are required to love both too!  If you are into big family events and long talks that last all night, this could be your dream Element come to life here on Earth.

Metal – Love the bad boys? You know the ones everyone wants but no one ever gets to really know? Dig the mysterious Johnny Depp, Liam Neeson, and Colin Farrell type? Angelina Jolie rock your world? The Metals are soooo cool and so desirable to many, but they can be aloof and loners in society. You want to know what makes them tick, but good luck finding a way into those secrets! They love quiet times and very sensual, very deep encounters on many levels. Metal can appear shy or even just fade into the background at social scenes, since they are not always comfy being front and center or in the limelight unless they have to. The challenge with Metals is you need to be sincere, and learn to accept their quietness.  Metal is precious if you are wanting that cosmic, deeply connected and profound type of love.

Water – Crave excitement and intensity in life?  Are you into Justin Timberlake, Kevin Hart, and Channing Tatum? These crazy Water boys love to laugh and love life.  Water celeb women like Zooey Deschanel and Jennifer Lawrence are all about unpredictability. They are the X factors in the Elemental world.  They are so different, so amazingly chill—sometimes—or amazingly wired for life, you just never know!  Waters could take you rock climbing one weekend, and couch surfing with TV the next.  To love Water, you need to be flexible, fun-loving, and always up for something new out in the world and in the bedroom.  Intensity that builds and builds along with deep wordless connection when making love is a rush for many and a turn off for others.  Water is a ride of a lifetime and full of surprises in the romance department.

Finding the right Elemental Energy match can be fun and exciting and much easier than you think once you know your Elemental energies.  So, start the journey of self-discovery and find that perfect energy match for you and your life right here and now. Break through the past and find your future lover.

We believe there is no wrong or right—no mistakes. You are on a journey, your own personal journey through life, and no one can tell you what you have done in the past is good or bad, it is just what it is.  With that said, let’s put the past in the past and start anew. Learning about yourself is the first step to finding your energetic dream match.

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SeahorseLove“In order to find true connection, we can tell you one thing early on; you must first connect with the most perfect person of all—yourself!

– from The Energy of Love by Leta Herman and Jaye McElroy

 

 

Hot lovers come in all sizes and shapes.  Many times we hear people, maybe even you, say things like, “He is soooo my type” or “I just don’t think she’s the one.” This may have to do with the person’s looks or social status, but it’s more likely that you’re talking about something else entirely—you’re actually sensing the person’s energy.

Energy rules the planet, and the energy of sexual attraction is not an exception to that rule. Every person has a specific energy make-up or temperament that you may find very attractive or dislike. Wouldn’t it be nice to understand which energy you’re often attracted to and how you can find your perfect mate? Well, we are here to help you do just that!

The ancient Chinese philosophers understood the difference between different types of energies and believed that depending on your energy type, it’s not so much a person’s actual “looks” that you fall in love with … it’s how they move, talk, and even the way they look at you that matters, especially in the bedroom!

Who’s your dream lover? Which of these celebrities do you daydream over?

 

  • Do you go for the strong, charismatic types like George Clooney or Brad Pitt? Are you ga-ga over Lady Gaga or see red when you see the singer P!nk?
  • Or do you prefer the ever-smiling, upbeat Leonardo DiCaprio or soccer hunk David Beckham? Maybe you just can’t help smiling whenever you see Julia Roberts or Cate Blanchett on the big screen.
  • Do you swoon for the sounds of U2’s front man Bono, who is more likely to take you out to dinner and really get to know you better by listening to your life story. Maybe the sweet girl-next-door Jennifer Anniston makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside?
  • If it’s mysterious, cool, and quiet that you are looking for in a mate, then someone like Johnny Depp, Angelina Jolie, or funny-woman Jane Lynch might do the trick.
  • Maybe it’s the spontaneous, silly, and dreamy likes of young and hip Harry Styles or Justin Timberlake that makes your heart thump to a new kind of beat? Do the quirky and endearing Zooey Deschanel and Jennifer Lawrence float your boat?

So what is the answer? What is the magic spell that you need to cast for love? Well, it’s all about energy—yours and everyone around you!

How do you identify someone’s energy type? The ancient Chinese believed that everyone is born with a specific way of moving through life that they called the Five Elements: Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal, and Water. Each person has all five types in them, in different orders. We call that your “stack up” of Elemental energies.  Everyone’s stack up is different, for the most part, and the order of the Elements influences your every action, word, and emotion. Each Elemental Energy type has different qualities that can give you an inkling of how your lovers will act and how you’ll react (positively or negatively) to them.

To help you look at the Five Elements in a different way, we want to show you some examples of celebrities and how they stack up, Elementally speaking of course! Stay tuned for Part 2 of Prince (or Princess) Charming, or Eh, Not So Charming.

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We are developing the next generation of workshops on the Five Elements. Coming up are: Love and the Five Elements: Want It? Find It? Keep It! – a four hour workshop in April in Northampton, location and date TBA The Five Elements: Connecting Your Circle – an advanced class, TBA Five Days, Five Elements: AnRead More

Read about The Energy of Love in Oracle 20/20 Magazine from February 2014. Visit the magazine’s web site here.